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Don't despair! Not all Wiccans on here are like this. I'm a Wiccan, and from what I understand its important to be respectful of other people and their beliefs. You have to remember that everything they say or do comes back to them three-fold, a concept I can see many have abandoned throughout this website.


You assume it's something people believed in to begin with. Anyway, most Pagans on this site aren't Wiccan.

To many people, saying you're a Wiccan when you're not an initiate is appropriation, and a bad thing to do. Will these negative actions of appropriation come back threefold?


That's true.
I used to classify as wiccan when i was like 12
(hence my username...)

I didn't even know you had to be initiated,
and i got quite a bit of negativity from other wiccans.


You don't. Don't buy into the claptrap rhetoric of one extremist tradition. Do your own research and find your own truth. Now I'm just one more stranger on the internet and you don't know me from Eve. So instead of telling you "Don't listen to them listen to me" I will instead refer you to the words of Doreen Valiente.

http://homepage.ntlworld.com/wisewoman/Pentagram 1.pdf

Please take note of the part where she speaks of it being incorrect for any one group to claim to be the one true authentic one.

I await my rather militent oppositions claims that DV is not a credible source on the subject of Wicca. I'm curious how big of fools they will make of themselves attempting to maintain their personal agendas.

Good luck w/ your seeking and feel free to PM me if I can be of any help. heart


Doreen being Gardner's HPS, of course what she says has meaning. However, again you are totally misinterpreting and taking what is being said out of context...

"Owning to the years of persecution, the old traditions have become fragmented, with one coven or groups of covens preserving certain aspects of the old beliefs, that have been handed down to them, while others retain and place emphasis upon other aspects.

I think we should take this fact into account, and recognize that no section of the cult has the right to say that "we are the genuine article"; "anyone who is different that us is wrong." Rather we should respect each other's views, when sincerely held, whether or not we agree with them.
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What you are ignoring completely is that when she says that - she means that within Wicca (the cult), no particular Trad is more "genuine" than any other. She speaks specifically of covens, which during the time that this was printed, all required initiation of some sort. Therefore it's not an incorrect statement for her to make, it just doesn't apply to the current issue the way that you would like to think it should.

Also I don't know of anyone who says that people who practice things other than Wicca are wrong - the issue is (and has always been) that they continue to claim the title of Wiccan, when it does not accurately describe what they are, nor have they earned the right (through proper initiation) to claim it.


rofl rofl rofl

What she MEANT?!?!?

Oh I'm so sorry. I didn't know that you where an expert on DV and what she by every word she ever wrote.

Tell me, did you have these extensive meetings with her before her death, or have you simply been channeling her?

Why don't you worry about your own interpratation of the words, let me worry about mine and let the OP worry about his? Or would that go against you policy of allowing others to think for themselves and lead their own lives?


I'm so sorry, guess I should have taken the extra minute or two to type out all of what she said. See at the very beginning, she specifically states that she's talking about the Craft of the Wise, which last time I checked Craft of the Wise = Wicca. So it has nothing to do with my own personal interpretations, it has everything to do with her exact words regarding the witchcult that she was a HPS of.
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That's true.
I used to classify as wiccan when i was like 12
(hence my username...)

I didn't even know you had to be initiated,
and i got quite a bit of negativity from other wiccans.


You don't. Don't buy into the claptrap rhetoric of one extremist tradition. Do your own research and find your own truth. Now I'm just one more stranger on the internet and you don't know me from Eve. So instead of telling you "Don't listen to them listen to me" I will instead refer you to the words of Doreen Valiente.

http://homepage.ntlworld.com/wisewoman/Pentagram 1.pdf

Please take note of the part where she speaks of it being incorrect for any one group to claim to be the one true authentic one.

I await my rather militent oppositions claims that DV is not a credible source on the subject of Wicca. I'm curious how big of fools they will make of themselves attempting to maintain their personal agendas.

Good luck w/ your seeking and feel free to PM me if I can be of any help. heart


Doreen being Gardner's HPS, of course what she says has meaning. However, again you are totally misinterpreting and taking what is being said out of context...

"Owning to the years of persecution, the old traditions have become fragmented, with one coven or groups of covens preserving certain aspects of the old beliefs, that have been handed down to them, while others retain and place emphasis upon other aspects.

I think we should take this fact into account, and recognize that no section of the cult has the right to say that "we are the genuine article"; "anyone who is different that us is wrong." Rather we should respect each other's views, when sincerely held, whether or not we agree with them.
"

What you are ignoring completely is that when she says that - she means that within Wicca (the cult), no particular Trad is more "genuine" than any other. She speaks specifically of covens, which during the time that this was printed, all required initiation of some sort. Therefore it's not an incorrect statement for her to make, it just doesn't apply to the current issue the way that you would like to think it should.

Also I don't know of anyone who says that people who practice things other than Wicca are wrong - the issue is (and has always been) that they continue to claim the title of Wiccan, when it does not accurately describe what they are, nor have they earned the right (through proper initiation) to claim it.


rofl rofl rofl

What she MEANT?!?!?

Oh I'm so sorry. I didn't know that you where an expert on DV and what she by every word she ever wrote.

Tell me, did you have these extensive meetings with her before her death, or have you simply been channeling her?

Why don't you worry about your own interpratation of the words, let me worry about mine and let the OP worry about his? Or would that go against you policy of allowing others to think for themselves and lead their own lives?


I'm so sorry, guess I should have taken the extra minute or two to type out all of what she said. See at the very beginning, she specifically states that she's talking about the Craft of the Wise, which last time I checked Craft of the Wise = Wicca. So it has nothing to do with my own personal interpretations, it has everything to do with her exact words regarding the witchcult that she was a HPS of.


Oh craft of the wise is being called into serious dispute. Wicca menas wise one. It means to bend. It means the meeting point of magic and prayer. It means about 5000 different things and nobody can agree b/c everybodies busy trying to twist the meaning so that they come out with a claim on the word. rolleyes stupidity

Within thirty minutes I could post three different articles presenting three different meanings, each with their own facts and research and sources.

But yes I will concede that she meant Wicca. Your point? What do you think we are talking about here. She meant Wicca when she said that nobody had an exclusive claim on authenticity. Which means, sweets, that all this elitist garbage about "if you're not iniated into OUR special little Wicca club you're not a REAL Wiccan" is just that, garbage.

Don't like it, go argue about w/ DV.
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That's true.
I used to classify as wiccan when i was like 12
(hence my username...)

I didn't even know you had to be initiated,
and i got quite a bit of negativity from other wiccans.


You don't. Don't buy into the claptrap rhetoric of one extremist tradition. Do your own research and find your own truth. Now I'm just one more stranger on the internet and you don't know me from Eve. So instead of telling you "Don't listen to them listen to me" I will instead refer you to the words of Doreen Valiente.

http://homepage.ntlworld.com/wisewoman/Pentagram 1.pdf

Please take note of the part where she speaks of it being incorrect for any one group to claim to be the one true authentic one.

I await my rather militent oppositions claims that DV is not a credible source on the subject of Wicca. I'm curious how big of fools they will make of themselves attempting to maintain their personal agendas.

Good luck w/ your seeking and feel free to PM me if I can be of any help. heart


Doreen being Gardner's HPS, of course what she says has meaning. However, again you are totally misinterpreting and taking what is being said out of context...

"Owning to the years of persecution, the old traditions have become fragmented, with one coven or groups of covens preserving certain aspects of the old beliefs, that have been handed down to them, while others retain and place emphasis upon other aspects.

I think we should take this fact into account, and recognize that no section of the cult has the right to say that "we are the genuine article"; "anyone who is different that us is wrong." Rather we should respect each other's views, when sincerely held, whether or not we agree with them.
"

What you are ignoring completely is that when she says that - she means that within Wicca (the cult), no particular Trad is more "genuine" than any other. She speaks specifically of covens, which during the time that this was printed, all required initiation of some sort. Therefore it's not an incorrect statement for her to make, it just doesn't apply to the current issue the way that you would like to think it should.

Also I don't know of anyone who says that people who practice things other than Wicca are wrong - the issue is (and has always been) that they continue to claim the title of Wiccan, when it does not accurately describe what they are, nor have they earned the right (through proper initiation) to claim it.


rofl rofl rofl

What she MEANT?!?!?

Oh I'm so sorry. I didn't know that you where an expert on DV and what she by every word she ever wrote.

Tell me, did you have these extensive meetings with her before her death, or have you simply been channeling her?

Why don't you worry about your own interpratation of the words, let me worry about mine and let the OP worry about his? Or would that go against you policy of allowing others to think for themselves and lead their own lives?


I'm so sorry, guess I should have taken the extra minute or two to type out all of what she said. See at the very beginning, she specifically states that she's talking about the Craft of the Wise, which last time I checked Craft of the Wise = Wicca. So it has nothing to do with my own personal interpretations, it has everything to do with her exact words regarding the witchcult that she was a HPS of.


Oh craft of the wise is being called into serious dispute. Wicca menas wise one. It means to bend. It means the meeting point of magic and prayer. It means about 5000 different things and nobody can agree b/c everybodies busy trying to twist the meaning so that they come out with a claim on the word. rolleyes stupidity

Within thirty minutes I could post three different articles presenting three different meanings, each with their own facts and research and sources.

But yes I will concede that she meant Wicca. Your point? What do you think we are talking about here. She meant Wicca when she said that nobody had an exclusive claim on authenticity. Which means, sweets, that all this elitist garbage about "if you're not iniated into OUR special little Wicca club you're not a REAL Wiccan" is just that, garbage.

Don't like it, go argue about w/ DV.


Wicca at that time was entirely initiatory - that was my point. So my original post still stands - what she was said only applies to those who were initiates...there weren't any other kind.
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Doreen being Gardner's HPS, of course what she says has meaning. However, again you are totally misinterpreting and taking what is being said out of context...

"Owning to the years of persecution, the old traditions have become fragmented, with one coven or groups of covens preserving certain aspects of the old beliefs, that have been handed down to them, while others retain and place emphasis upon other aspects.

I think we should take this fact into account, and recognize that no section of the cult has the right to say that "we are the genuine article"; "anyone who is different that us is wrong." Rather we should respect each other's views, when sincerely held, whether or not we agree with them.
"

What you are ignoring completely is that when she says that - she means that within Wicca (the cult), no particular Trad is more "genuine" than any other. She speaks specifically of covens, which during the time that this was printed, all required initiation of some sort. Therefore it's not an incorrect statement for her to make, it just doesn't apply to the current issue the way that you would like to think it should.

Also I don't know of anyone who says that people who practice things other than Wicca are wrong - the issue is (and has always been) that they continue to claim the title of Wiccan, when it does not accurately describe what they are, nor have they earned the right (through proper initiation) to claim it.


rofl rofl rofl

What she MEANT?!?!?

Oh I'm so sorry. I didn't know that you where an expert on DV and what she by every word she ever wrote.

Tell me, did you have these extensive meetings with her before her death, or have you simply been channeling her?

Why don't you worry about your own interpratation of the words, let me worry about mine and let the OP worry about his? Or would that go against you policy of allowing others to think for themselves and lead their own lives?


I'm so sorry, guess I should have taken the extra minute or two to type out all of what she said. See at the very beginning, she specifically states that she's talking about the Craft of the Wise, which last time I checked Craft of the Wise = Wicca. So it has nothing to do with my own personal interpretations, it has everything to do with her exact words regarding the witchcult that she was a HPS of.


Oh craft of the wise is being called into serious dispute. Wicca menas wise one. It means to bend. It means the meeting point of magic and prayer. It means about 5000 different things and nobody can agree b/c everybodies busy trying to twist the meaning so that they come out with a claim on the word. rolleyes stupidity

Within thirty minutes I could post three different articles presenting three different meanings, each with their own facts and research and sources.

But yes I will concede that she meant Wicca. Your point? What do you think we are talking about here. She meant Wicca when she said that nobody had an exclusive claim on authenticity. Which means, sweets, that all this elitist garbage about "if you're not iniated into OUR special little Wicca club you're not a REAL Wiccan" is just that, garbage.

Don't like it, go argue about w/ DV.


Wicca at that time was entirely initiatory - that was my point. So my original post still stands - what she was said only applies to those who were initiates...there weren't any other kind.


Ah ah ah sweets, your breaking the unwritten forum rules. You're not allowed to just say it you have to prove it remember? So, where is your proof that at the time Wicca was entirely iniatory? Where is your proof that DV was reffering only to initiates? I don't see her putting any qualifier about initiation, but simply about views sincerely held.

Here is this lovely letter wishing for the unification of the craft as a whole, and you try to twist it into "What she actually meant was only the elitist iniatory traditions", which obviously can not be further from her actual intention.

Now, if I may make an observation: I simply presented a link to a whole letter, w/o supplying any input on possable interpratations, so the the whole thing could be read in its entirety and one's own conclusions drawn. You are the other hand have not stopped pushing your unsupported interpratation since it was posted. Yet I am the one that will take things out of context and twist it towards my own ends? Uh-huh, is this your first work of fiction, or do you have others?

Now why don't you make us both happy, take your own advice and ignore me. The OP will come to his own conclusions about the letter and I'm afraid you will just have to live with that, even if you don't approve of said conclusions.
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Wicca at that time was entirely initiatory - that was my point. So my original post still stands - what she was said only applies to those who were initiates...there weren't any other kind.


It is useless to try. People have been going at this with them for many, many moths.

For wytche. context is meaningless.
not all pagans are wiccans stressed
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People have been going at this with them for many, many moths.

lmao sorry lol some typoes are just hilarious.
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I've been very disappointed lately in a few of the Pagan guilds/threads I'm a part of here on Gaia.
All of my wiccan/pagan friends in real life are so lovely.
They're friendly and nice; i guess the kind of "stereotype" that Pagans are.
Because before I really knew what Pagan/Wicca was, I had heard that all witches were really friendly and nice people!

But lately on Gaia, I've been browsing through the guilds and forums, and have noticed how mean and rude some of them are! neutral

Even some of my own posts, whenever someone would reply, they are very rude and matter-of-fact, kind of like a stuck-up person. They speak like they're superior, and know everything, and it's really starting to bum me out...

I thought "Hey, maybe just a few of them are like that, and they're in a bad mood or something."
But no, every time I try to say something, or someone new to the faith asks a question, the majority of them are mean as hell... I don't get it..
Why is that only the Pagans here on Gaia are acting this way?

I'm not exaggerating this one bit, I swear.
This is all pure experience from being on the site.
I've contemplated leaving all the Pagan guilds I'm in, and just ending contact with them all...




well, it's been like this for a long time.. xD most people on here just have different views than others... and some are stubborn or just make it seem they're the ones who should be followed or whatever... but I'm sure not everyone that is a Pagan are like that. And not all Pagans here are Wiccans.
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neutral There's always gonna be those types of people I like to call the elitist cause they think they are the best and everyone else are fluffs. And they seem to be more concerned with how old or pure their path is opposed to others.

I don't really care cause everyone has their own calling. But it turned me off to Wicca and other paths deeply involved with that. There is something called Neo-Wiccan I think which most people will consider you unless you have that whole initiate lineage thing.

mrgreen That didn't click with me so in the end I'm an eclectic Pagan and perfectly ok with that. I think a lot of new Pagans seem to get hung up on Wicca since it's a bit more popular than other pagan paths but really Paganism is SOO wide spread. rofl
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I'm writing a paper on this in college- and I'm coming to the conclusion that people are substituting semantic and etymological history for the gap in the traditions.

When Wicca became part of Modern English, it meant a specific group. That group has specific gods, specific practices, specific holidays, specific rituals and tools and stuff- so how do people who call themselves Wiccan without this bridge the gap between this training and learning and experience with what they have in order to make themselves fit into the meaning of "Wicca"?
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I'm writing a paper on this in college- and I'm coming to the conclusion that people are substituting semantic and etymological history for the gap in the traditions.

When Wicca became part of Modern English, it meant a specific group. That group has specific gods, specific practices, specific holidays, specific rituals and tools and stuff- so how do people who call themselves Wiccan without this bridge the gap between this training and learning and experience with what they have in order to make themselves fit into the meaning of "Wicca"?


I think it's just a division between a group of people who started with the same or similar beliefs but then something new started to come of it. Kind of like Christians Catholics Protestants Lutherans etc. The people who "improperly" bridge the gap are now usually called Neo-Wiccans I think the majority of Wiccans are Neo-Wiccans because there aren't enough lineage priest/priestesses and covens to be spread out so much. Some confusion does occur because some Wiccans are misinformed or choose not to accept the term Neo or eclectic.

I think eventually it will get around though. I also think it's cool of you to write this for college =] good luck with your studies. You can also talk to a lot of Pagans/Wiccans on youtube for more info directly from a person.
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I think it's just a division between a group of people who started with the same or similar beliefs but then something new started to come of it.
I can see why someone would think that- but when you look at a lot of the material, like how Cardell intentionally used the word Wiccen, not to name his group, but to catch Gardner's eye- you start to see a pattern. I don't think the group Gardner was a part of calling themselves Wica and later Wicca should be put in the same group as a guy who hired spies like "Olive" and intentionally used words to catch Gardner's attention. It feels like rewarding someone for being manipulative and dishonest.


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Kind of like Christians Catholics Protestants Lutherans etc.
I disagree- because the whole point of Christianity is, as my English Prof says, a "revealed" religion- like Islam. There's a book that you can read about Christianity and all those different groups you mentioned had people reading the books and then making decisions. What makes Wicca different is that Wicca at it's origin was an experiential mystery religion- and among the most important experiences are the initiations because they help you experience the gods that are specific to Wicca. Ronald Hutton even mentions that the Second Degree is strongly tied to the Myth of the Goddess.

When you get people who call themselves Eclectic or Neo Wiccan, a lot of the times they worship gods from other religions- which would make them eclectic, but without those transforming experiences that connect them to other Wiccans- they don't have the same understandings.

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The people who "improperly" bridge the gap are now usually called Neo-Wiccans I think the majority of Wiccans are Neo-Wiccans because there aren't enough lineage priest/priestesses and covens to be spread out so much.
I was seeking for a while before finding the coven I am working with now, but what you said kind of highlights what I am talking about- calling them Wiccan in the first place doesn't make sense.
I know my HPS understands so much more about Wicca because of her training and experiences. It doesn't make sense for me to call myself the same as her spiritually when I look at my experiences and hers.

And I'm not sure what you mean by "enough"- because if Wicca is really important to you- you'll study and reach out and be willing to travel to spend time with your coven. I usually drive about 5 hours to be with my coven- I can't attend every event, but my HPS is great because she helps facilitate the non-circle work and classes in my training and stuff.

Do you think the training I'm getting is the same as the training and stuff people who read Ravenwolf or Cunningham get? I have some major examples of how different the training has been for me- for example, Cunningham and Ravenwolf never touch on the issues someone who is 3rd Gender faces.
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Some confusion does occur because some Wiccans are misinformed or choose not to accept the term Neo or eclectic.
I think it's the other way around- I think the problem comes from them not being willing to accept it's more accurate to call themselves eclectic pagans or neo-pagans instead of eclectic or neo-wiccans.

I mean- how different should a group be before they realize that they're different from their roots. You mentioned Christianity earlier, but I think in that analogy the different denominations of Christianity are more like the different lineaged groups of Wicca which include Gardnerian, Alexandrian, Central Valley, Kingstone, Majestic and some others. And then the people you're calling Wiccan without the same mysteries or experiences are to Wicca as Islam is to Christianity.

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I think eventually it will get around though. I also think it's cool of you to write this for college =] good luck with your studies. You can also talk to a lot of Pagans/Wiccans on youtube for more info directly from a person.
Because it's a college paper, I need to have scholarly sources- since anyone can say anything on youtube, it isn't a good source for a college level paper.

I have some great peer reviewed articles, including the one from Pomegranate, one that is subtitled "Whipping Harry Potter's a**" and one on how the surge in eclectic paganism stems from commercialism. That last one highlights another major problem with the difference between Wicca and the stuff that calls itself Wicca without the mysteries and experiences- most of those books are laden with spells designed to bring things in your life. Now there's nothing wrong with spell work- but the books largely have a very different focus than Wicca- gratification. While Wicca does have work, the core focus of the Wicca is on the gods and that transformation that someone goes through because of the rituals and the experiences they create. I read those books for years, and I learned a lot of ideas when it comes to magic- but even my experiences as a dedicant have been a world apart from what I read in books.

These two things are so different- from the gods worshiped, to the focus of the religions, to the experiences from the ground up- the only people I see saying they're the same do so without having experienced the other side, and all the people who have experienced both sides say they're so different! I'm having a hard time understanding how someone with only half of the information is an expert when someone who has both experiences isn't.
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I can see why someone would think that- but when you look at a lot of the material, like how Cardell intentionally used the word Wiccen, not to name his group, but to catch Gardner's eye- you start to see a pattern. I don't think the group Gardner was a part of calling themselves Wica and later Wicca should be put in the same group as a guy who hired spies like "Olive" and intentionally used words to catch Gardner's attention. It feels like rewarding someone for being manipulative and dishonest.

I disagree- because the whole point of Christianity is, as my English Prof says, a "revealed" religion- like Islam. There's a book that you can read about Christianity and all those different groups you mentioned had people reading the books and then making decisions. What makes Wicca different is that Wicca at it's origin was an experiential mystery religion- and among the most important experiences are the initiations because they help you experience the gods that are specific to Wicca.


Could be it depends on how you see it though. I only refer to it as a branching off because even if you don't like the way the branching or stealing etc has occurred or how new it get's it's still trying to claim aspects of the original religion. It may not be an open book religion as you put Christianity but it's obvious things have leaked and transformed from the source creating the opportunity for that branching and idea forming to occur.

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what you said kind of highlights what I am talking about- calling them Wiccan in the first place doesn't make sense.

I know my HPS understands so much more about Wicca because of her training and experiences. It doesn't make sense for me to call myself the same as her spiritually when I look at my experiences and hers.

And I'm not sure what you mean by "enough"- because if Wicca is really important to you- you'll study and reach out and be willing to travel to spend time with your coven.


I do think they need a different label should either use the Neo Eclectic or just pagan but I don't necessarily have the opinion that someone should remove the term Wicca if that's what they identify with. Obviously the label attachments Neo Eclectic etc will alter it from being the original Wicca but to drop Wicca completely is not a matter of something that's right or wrong but of opinion. I don't see why someone who still follows as closely as they can to original Wicca while being a solitary practitioner or with out finding the teacher with the right connections should be forced to call themselves Neo-Pagan instead when it's obvious their focus is more on Wicca than any of the other thousands or millions of pagan practices out there.

And by enough I really mean enough. I can relate it to martial arts there really aren't enough true masters out there for all the people who seek to become true masters themselves. Most times the only option is to go study in that country under a master unless you're lucky enough to be near one. Which obviously sounds ideal but life just doesn't work for everyone like that. So because one person has that opportunity in life to become a master doesn't mean he would make a better master than the other person if they both had equal opportunity.

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When you get people who call themselves Eclectic or Neo Wiccan, a lot of the times they worship gods from other religions- which would make them eclectic, but without those transforming experiences that connect them to other Wiccans- they don't have the same understandings.


That's true which is why I think the prefix Neo would be good cause it's a new take on an old thing.


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Do you think the training I'm getting is the same as the training and stuff people who read Ravenwolf or Cunningham get?


I know it's different obviously or there probably wouldn't be so much dispute about it.. I'm a little wishy washy on stuff like that cause yeah I think it's a goodish intro to paganism but at the same time it kind of promotes this confusion about wicca and other types of paganism. So yeah =/

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I think it's the other way around- I think the problem comes from them not being willing to accept it's more accurate to call themselves eclectic pagans or neo-pagans instead of eclectic or neo-wiccans.


I think that too actually but I'm not sure it's totally by choice. I've met a handful of people who legitimately thought they where Wiccan only to find out later that they can't be or couldn't be for whatever reason and then had to accept they where actually Neo-Wiccan. Of course with enough study something like that could be learned before hand but it depends on what sources you choose to believe and for people especially younger it's easier to believe the nice people who tell you to follow your heart this religion is really flexible bla bla bla than the other people who look down on you calling you a fluff that can't know what the right way is.

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the people you're calling Wiccan without the same mysteries or experiences are to Wicca as Islam is to Christianity.


Perhaps then it is like Judaism to Christianity to Islam. Where the different groups don't one hundred percent agree with how the other group practices or preforms rituals or even some of the stuff they believe in or have altered/added from the original like "false" prophets etc. Either way they are tied together from the same roots.

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Because it's a college paper, I need to have scholarly sources- since anyone can say anything on youtube, it isn't a good source for a college level paper.

I have some great peer reviewed articles, including the one from Pomegranate, one that is subtitled "Whipping Harry Potter's a**" and one on how the surge in eclectic paganism stems from commercialism. That last one highlights another major problem with the difference between Wicca and the stuff that calls itself Wicca without the mysteries and experiences- most of those books are laden with spells designed to bring things in your life. Now there's nothing wrong with spell work- but the books largely have a very different focus than Wicca- gratification. While Wicca does have work, the core focus of the Wicca is on the gods and that transformation that someone goes through because of the rituals and the experiences they create. I read those books for years, and I learned a lot of ideas when it comes to magic- but even my experiences as a dedicant have been a world apart from what I read in books.

These two things are so different- from the gods worshiped, to the focus of the religions, to the experiences from the ground up- the only people I see saying they're the same do so without having experienced the other side, and all the people who have experienced both sides say they're so different! I'm having a hard time understanding how someone with only half of the information is an expert when someone who has both experiences isn't.


I only suggested it cause you're on gaia having discussions so it could be fun to go on youtube and have discussions. As you know I'm not wiccan and I personally don't really do spells and stuff. Because that's not why I'm on this path, it's also another thing that turned me off from Wicca.

I've only met two people who have experienced both sides afterwards one committed to just being called pagan but the other preferred Neo-Wiccan cause they really couldn't let go of the things that drew them to Wicca but they at the same time couldn't be part of that whole original process.

I don't think they are experts I've never really come across anyone claiming to be an expert either. I think it's probably just watered down versions of the original, just like how martial arts gets watered down the further you get from a country, yet if you look hard enough you can still find the good seeds among that mess.
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Could be it depends on how you see it though. I only refer to it as a branching off because even if you don't like the way the branching or stealing etc has occurred or how new it get's it's still trying to claim aspects of the original religion.
But I think the problem is that the trying doesn't mean it succeeds. But I also wonder how many people really try to begin with- and how many people either don't know that eclecticism isn't the same as Wicca, or when they do know, care more about being "right" than learning the difference.
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It may not be an open book religion as you put Christianity but it's obvious things have leaked and transformed from the source creating the opportunity for that branching and idea forming to occur.

Not really- because there's a difference between Mysteries and secrets. For example, the rituals and stuff are supposed to be secret- but if someone breaks their oaths and tells you, that won't make you experience the Mysteries and it won't transform you the way the initiations and the training does.

I grew up going to Mass, that doesn't mean I'm a Priest even if I know the prayers- and Wicca is a priesthood.

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I do think they need a different label should either use the Neo Eclectic or just pagan but I don't necessarily have the opinion that someone should remove the term Wicca if that's what they identify with.
But isn't that them placing themselves before the gods? I mean- Wiccans are Wiccan because they are called to serve these two specific gods, and Wicca is that religion. Look- I'm a seeker and a dedicant, but I'm not seeking to be Wiccan because I like the word, I'm seeking because I had experiences that Wicca might help me understand. Maybe it won't- maybe some day I'll wake up and either not care about what I saw and felt (not likely) or maybe I'll wake up and find out there is some other path that will help me answer these questions. Initiated or not- it's about how I'll answer the calling, not about what I want to be titled.

Maybe people who cling to the word Wicca should think about the Lord and Lady of Wicca instead of the title.
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Obviously the label attachments Neo Eclectic etc will alter it from being the original Wicca but to drop Wicca completely is not a matter of something that's right or wrong but of opinion. I don't see why someone who still follows as closely as they can to original Wicca while being a solitary practitioner or with out finding the teacher with the right connections should be forced to call themselves Neo-Pagan instead when it's obvious their focus is more on Wicca than any of the other thousands or millions of pagan practices out there.


The more research I do, the more I think it's not obvious that their focus is more on Wicca. Many of them focus on completely different gods for a start- and some of them focus on completely different practices, or practices that only look similar to people who aren't familiar with what Wicca does.

Take this for example.
"Start by determining how big your space needs to be. A ceremonial circle is a place in which positive energy and power are kept in, and negative energy kept out."

Here we have a great example of what lots of people use circles for in their eclectic practice- but the Wicca don't cast a circle the way the website describes or for the same reason.

The ritual tools, the Ekos, the circle, the gods- people keep saying that it's obvious that they're the same, but it isn't to me any more- and it's still nagging at me that the only people who keep saying it's obvious are people who aren't initiates in Wicca.

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And by enough I really mean enough. I can relate it to martial arts there really aren't enough true masters out there for all the people who seek to become true masters themselves. Most times the only option is to go study in that country under a master unless you're lucky enough to be near one. Which obviously sounds ideal but life just doesn't work for everyone like that. So because one person has that opportunity in life to become a master doesn't mean he would make a better master than the other person if they both had equal opportunity.

Wicca is a calling. Wiccan teachers do not charge money for Wicca, but seekers do need to make the effort. If you're not willing to make the effort, to sacrifice to learn, then Wicca isn't the right path, and if you are willing and nothing is coming up, work towards it and be ready.

The first Wiccans I spoke to weren't a good fit even though they lived 5 minutes from here. They didn't answer my questions or help me in my seeking. My HPS lives so far away, but she lets me stay with her when I can, she has me visit for a week+ to catch up.

Do you think it's fair, when you talk about martial arts, that people who aren't Kung Fu black belts tell people they are just because they want to be?

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That's true which is why I think the prefix Neo would be good cause it's a new take on an old thing.
But I still see too many differences to see it as a new take on an old thing and not something completely different.

It makes me respect people from Reclaiming and Feri a lot- that they're honest that they're not Wiccan.


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I know it's different obviously or there probably wouldn't be so much dispute about it.. I'm a little wishy washy on stuff like that cause yeah I think it's a goodish intro to paganism but at the same time it kind of promotes this confusion about wicca and other types of paganism. So yeah =/
I think Cunningham is an ok intro to paganism- but not to Wicca. That's all any of the Wiccans around here ask for- not that people stop seeking or stop practicing what they practice, but that they stop confusing the stuff you get from a book with the Mysteries that make you Wiccan.

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I think that too actually but I'm not sure it's totally by choice. I've met a handful of people who legitimately thought they where Wiccan only to find out later that they can't be or couldn't be for whatever reason and then had to accept they where actually Neo-Wiccan. Of course with enough study something like that could be learned before hand but it depends on what sources you choose to believe and for people especially younger it's easier to believe the nice people who tell you to follow your heart this religion is really flexible bla bla bla than the other people who look down on you calling you a fluff that can't know what the right way is.
I think there is a problem with some pagans who are just jerks- but you get that in anything.

But you kind of proved my point- it's easier, but easy and right are different things.

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Perhaps then it is like Judaism to Christianity to Islam. Where the different groups don't one hundred percent agree with how the other group practices or preforms rituals or even some of the stuff they believe in or have altered/added from the original like "false" prophets etc. Either way they are tied together from the same roots.
The problem is that Christianity knows it's not Judaism and Islam and visa versa- they named themseleves different things. There's no doubt that Wicca influenced a lot of the eclectic witchcraft religions- Ed Fitch was Wiccan and he published things that were inspired by Wicca to help train and teach seekers. There are all kinds of stuff that was inspired by Wicca that isn't Wicca itself. Christianity was inspired by Judaism- but that doesn't make a Catholic a Jew any more than someone who is a non-initiate Eclectic is Wiccan.

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I only suggested it cause you're on gaia having discussions so it could be fun to go on youtube and have discussions. As you know I'm not wiccan and I personally don't really do spells and stuff. Because that's not why I'm on this path, it's also another thing that turned me off from Wicca.

How much spell work do you think is part of Wicca?
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I've only met two people who have experienced both sides afterwards one committed to just being called pagan but the other preferred Neo-Wiccan cause they really couldn't let go of the things that drew them to Wicca but they at the same time couldn't be part of that whole original process.

What traditions were they a part of? I'm asking because so many people think they are Wiccan and since the term seems confused in how you use it, I've got no way of knowing that they were ever initiates. I'm not saying it couldn't happen- but it's really odd, and it doesn't make sense because once someone is initiated, that can't be undone.

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I don't think they are experts I've never really come across anyone claiming to be an expert either. I think it's probably just watered down versions of the original, just like how martial arts gets watered down the further you get from a country, yet if you look hard enough you can still find the good seeds among that mess.
There are different kinds of experts- there are scholars and there are people who are experts by experience.

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