MY PARENTS WON'T SHUT THE ******** UP!

[Namekuji Kimi]

Hitch Slap

Namekuji Kimi

Hitch Slap

...Wait your GF sleeps over at your PARENT'S house and you want them to let you shut the door and drown them out? Usually people do that to ********. I don't know what the rules are in your house, but most parents are not ok with that. Is there a reason you can't get your own place? If you don't like their rules, you should probably move out.

I'm pretty lucky because my parents let us shut the door and turn white noise on, usually so that we don't disturb others. We are both adults. He is only over a couple times a week at most, though.

My family doesn't do much to annoy me, nor do I have a "least favorite" family member. The only thing that sucks is when my step dad has really serious rage fits. I've had to call the cops on him a few times. Despite that, he is not my "least favorite" family member.

On the other hand, I really don't like my BF's family. They would never let us sleep over-- they claimed we were having sex on their couch (utterly not true at all in any way whatsoever). They do a lot of weird s**t on his house and it's why I try to let him come over here to escape as much as he can, but my family says he can't live with us or "practically" live with us by staying too much. I don't resent my parents for this, and I understand why they have these rules in place.

I think the most annoying things my BF's family does is that they make a ton of assumptions and then gossip. The gossip stories hardly resemble the original s**t they heard, which they also take out of context. Things are slowly getting better but basically I hate how paranoid his mother can be sometimes. Then she'll turn around and like, not address her younger sons, who are both mentally ill. There's a lot of stories I could tell about that, but to keep it short, they have no respect for authority and express no remorse for their wrong doings, and one of them is 13, the other is just 12. These boys are going to be ******** criminals by the time they're young adults unless she does something about it. But she actually would rather waste a lot more time saying I'm a pervert and a deviant and freaking out about that. Fortunately, she stopped that recently (like as in the last month or so). However, she's done that before and got back to being a crazy person again so I don't really have any trust here. I am always walking on eggshells with his family, and have to hide who I am, my true personality and my hobbies, because they are passively homophobic, and if I do anything "gay" it makes them feel validated in their assumptions about what gay people "are".

I think the most annoying s**t that's happened is like they accused us of ******** in their living room, his mom called me a ***** (she apologized for it but still), they'd say my BF would only visit me for sex (not true), and they believed all of the paranoid rantings of his sister's best friend, who was living with them, but that girl hated me because I am gay and she is Catholic. She has only unkind things to say about gay people, though she generally "keeps it to herself". However, she was a large instrument in my boyfriend's family hating me without even really knowing me. And every time I made an effort to get to know them, they'd basically ignore me and made sure the tension was really high.

Fortunately, most of that has blow over. They hate that girl and they've basically tried to kick her out. My BF's mom was trying to let her save up money so she could move out properly, but she's been constantly causing a lot of drama, and enabling their daughter who cheated on her boyfriend with a guy 5 years older than her. She's taken over a month to move out, gradually removing her things, to everyone's annoyance. And since my BF's sister cheater on her BF (who is now her ex), his family started liking me more, saying that at least I don't cheat and at least they know we use protection (they freaked out when they found our condoms). Suddenly a lot of the s**t they used to be mad at me about are things they are praising us for. My BF also overheard his mom (he was eavesdropping) saying that she cares about ME (what?!) because her son loves me very much and she wants to be there for us. This is UNHEARD OF... So yeah, I am hoping things are getting better, and that their previously insane behavior is a thing of the past.

We're ADULTS, they don't care. They know we screw, but my girlfriend is like a daughter to them, and my parents aren't conservative. My girlfriend and I share a bed every night, we're always behind closed doors, and they don't care.

Also, I said we're home for break, as in from UNIVERSITY, as in, I usually live in dorms.

I'm not going to get my own apartment just for when I'm on break.

You made it sound like you're not allowed to close your door and turn a fan on. That's why I replied the way I did.

What about her? Why doesn't she have a place?

She goes to college with me, and her home is incredibly abusive.

My home isn't that bad, I just made one little rant thread. I love my parents very much, I just made a discussion thread with a rant, that's all. My parents love my girlfriend like a daughter, and they're the ones who INSIST we both stay there during break.

Why do those details even matter? All I did was rant, why do you need more details?

My dad has the night off and it is "family night," so it is loud. I'm not going to run away just because I'm pissy for one night. I don't think about leaving my girlfriend whenever we get into a fight.

[inviso87]

- Does your family annoy you? What about them bugs the hell out of you?
Holy ********, yes they do. My mom has control and priority issues. Do you chores or you don't eat! But....the chores will still be there when we get back. The later we go out, the more packed it's going to be at the restaurant....CHORES CHORES CHORES -_- Like, seriously?
My dad sings all the time. No, he seriously sings ALL THE TIME. A majority of it is Elvis Presley. Poor man must be writhing in his grave after hearing my dad butcher his good songs. And my dad being near deaf doesn't help either. He gets VERY pissed when he calls you and you don't hear him. But if you call him and he doesn't hear, it's no big deal. Oh...oh ok neutral
My sister loves to ask me for little chores here and there. And she very often forgets how much I had to tutor her in math when she was younger. Asking her for a favor is like pulling teeth, even if it's a small one. RAGE.


- Who are your LEAST favorite family members? Why?
Oh jeez, my least fav is def my mom. Hands down. I explained some of the things above. She gets mad at everyone else for anything she can. She got kidney stones a few years back and blamed my dad for them. He told her day 1 to go to the hospital when she was sick and she refused and suffered for 3 days before our neighbor called 911 after coming over to see how my mom was doing. If she had stayed home another day, she'd be dead. She also flips a s**t whenever chores aren't done or aren't done the exact way she wants. You could do everything but if you miss some little random chore she decides to tack on randomly, she says you did nothing. You ******** b***h. Nothing? Okay then...I'll show you nothing. And from then on, I started to not give a s**t about chores, doing them once every few days, whenever I felt like it. She's also a compulsive liar. She also believes she is above the law and those who have power over her (including her boss). She's just....blah, the exact kind of person I hate.

Then there's my grandfather on my mom's side. I don't necessarily hate him but...he always goes on how I made a mistake being a high school teacher (doesn't say it directly, but it's implied) and how I should be working for the police, as a firefighter, or for the FBI/CIA/whatever neutral I'm not working a job I hate for my whole life. I'm NOT doing that...so stop telling me to do that.


- Is there anyone in your family you honestly and utterly hate?
I think the paragraph about my mom summed this one up quite nicely.


- What are some of the worst, most terrible, annoying things your family has ever done? Any stories?
My mom has locked my sister in the crawlspace before. She has kicked her out to the street. She has threatened to leave my sister with random cops at the mall before. This was when my sister was really young too. My mom was a ******** b***h to my sister. My sister opened up to her about being depressed and stuff. The next day, my mom ******** rubs it in her face. How ******** disgusting. It takes a real ******** piece of s**t to do something like that. I don't even want to get into more s**t. I'm getting pissed now neutral


- Do you have any friends who have a family you find annoying? Does your significant other have annoying family members? Tell us some annoying family stories.
Nay to the 1st one. Don't have a SO, but the girl I am interested in right now doesn't get along with her dad perfectly, but has a very good relationship with her mom. In terms of annoying...don't think so.
The only annoying family story that doesn't involve my family that I can think of is when my friend invited me to go to Florida for vacation with him and his family. His mom has absolutely no respect for those that are sleeping. She is very loud. It actually really bothered me at the time :/ I love my sleep...

[Desideraht]

Namekuji Kimi

She goes to college with me, and her home is incredibly abusive.

My home isn't that bad, I just made one little rant thread. I love my parents very much, I just made a discussion thread with a rant, that's all. My parents love my girlfriend like a daughter, and they're the ones who INSIST we both stay there during break.

Why do those details even matter? All I did was rant, why do you need more details?

My dad has the night off and it is "family night," so it is loud. I'm not going to run away just because I'm pissy for one night. I don't think about leaving my girlfriend whenever we get into a fight.

That sucks, sorry to hear her situation is so ugly at home.

I do not mean offense when I ask this question... but isn't a little creepy that they love her like a daughter when you're ******** her? I hear a lot of people say stuff like this and it's weird. In fact, I'm confused that I'm gonna ask my mom about it later (if she loves my BF like he's one of her sons). She'll probably be able to make sense of it.

I don't really "need" more details; I thought this was a discussion thread.

I don't know why you said you don't think about leaving your girlfriend whenever you get into a fight. Are you saying I do that to my partner or are you just making a comparison in your own life? Because I don't do that to my partner. Anyway, you just made it sound like you hated living there, so I was curious if you actually HAVE to live there.

[RoflPenguin]

If I was in the same situation and had the means, I would go out for the night. Take a drive or a walk. Take your girlfriend of course though lol.

[Grimm-Bones]

- Does your family annoy you? What about them bugs the hell out of you?
Sometimes. My parents can be very Nosy and opinionated. They like to think their opinions are the most important thing in the universe XD

- Who are your LEAST favorite family members? Why?
Sister In-law she can be a total self entitled princess b***h

- Is there anyone in your family you honestly and utterly hate?
No. More like Detest passionately every now and again.

- What are some of the worst, most terrible, annoying things your family has ever done? Any stories?
Talking about disgusting things while trying to eat. Pushing un-asked for opinions.

- Do you have any friends who have a family you find annoying? Does your significant other have annoying family members? Tell us some annoying family stories.
My old roomates older sister. Another self entitled princess type.

[Namekuji Kimi]

Hitch Slap

Namekuji Kimi

She goes to college with me, and her home is incredibly abusive.

My home isn't that bad, I just made one little rant thread. I love my parents very much, I just made a discussion thread with a rant, that's all. My parents love my girlfriend like a daughter, and they're the ones who INSIST we both stay there during break.

Why do those details even matter? All I did was rant, why do you need more details?

My dad has the night off and it is "family night," so it is loud. I'm not going to run away just because I'm pissy for one night. I don't think about leaving my girlfriend whenever we get into a fight.

That sucks, sorry to hear her situation is so ugly at home.

I do not mean offense when I ask this question... but isn't a little creepy that they love her like a daughter when you're ******** her? I hear a lot of people say stuff like this and it's weird. In fact, I'm confused that I'm gonna ask my mom about it later (if she loves my BF like he's one of her sons). She'll probably be able to make sense of it.

I don't really "need" more details; I thought this was a discussion thread.

I don't know why you said you don't think about leaving your girlfriend whenever you get into a fight. Are you saying I do that to my partner or are you just making a comparison in your own life? Because I don't do that to my partner. Anyway, you just made it sound like you hated living there, so I was curious if you actually HAVE to live there.

Just ranting, I don't want advice; if I did, I'd make this in Life Issues.

[Desideraht]

Namekuji Kimi

Hitch Slap

Namekuji Kimi

She goes to college with me, and her home is incredibly abusive.

My home isn't that bad, I just made one little rant thread. I love my parents very much, I just made a discussion thread with a rant, that's all. My parents love my girlfriend like a daughter, and they're the ones who INSIST we both stay there during break.

Why do those details even matter? All I did was rant, why do you need more details?

My dad has the night off and it is "family night," so it is loud. I'm not going to run away just because I'm pissy for one night. I don't think about leaving my girlfriend whenever we get into a fight.

That sucks, sorry to hear her situation is so ugly at home.

I do not mean offense when I ask this question... but isn't a little creepy that they love her like a daughter when you're ******** her? I hear a lot of people say stuff like this and it's weird. In fact, I'm confused that I'm gonna ask my mom about it later (if she loves my BF like he's one of her sons). She'll probably be able to make sense of it.

I don't really "need" more details; I thought this was a discussion thread.

I don't know why you said you don't think about leaving your girlfriend whenever you get into a fight. Are you saying I do that to my partner or are you just making a comparison in your own life? Because I don't do that to my partner. Anyway, you just made it sound like you hated living there, so I was curious if you actually HAVE to live there.

Just ranting, I don't want advice; if I did, I'd make this in Life Issues.

Oh so you didn't want a discussion then. Okay.

Btw most of my post was about replying to your questions. You chose to ignore it. So I don't feel too sorry for the direction this went in. You chose to focus on the part that you supposedly don't want to talk about.

[Namekuji Kimi]

Hitch Slap

Namekuji Kimi

Hitch Slap

Namekuji Kimi

She goes to college with me, and her home is incredibly abusive.

My home isn't that bad, I just made one little rant thread. I love my parents very much, I just made a discussion thread with a rant, that's all. My parents love my girlfriend like a daughter, and they're the ones who INSIST we both stay there during break.

Why do those details even matter? All I did was rant, why do you need more details?

My dad has the night off and it is "family night," so it is loud. I'm not going to run away just because I'm pissy for one night. I don't think about leaving my girlfriend whenever we get into a fight.

That sucks, sorry to hear her situation is so ugly at home.

I do not mean offense when I ask this question... but isn't a little creepy that they love her like a daughter when you're ******** her? I hear a lot of people say stuff like this and it's weird. In fact, I'm confused that I'm gonna ask my mom about it later (if she loves my BF like he's one of her sons). She'll probably be able to make sense of it.

I don't really "need" more details; I thought this was a discussion thread.

I don't know why you said you don't think about leaving your girlfriend whenever you get into a fight. Are you saying I do that to my partner or are you just making a comparison in your own life? Because I don't do that to my partner. Anyway, you just made it sound like you hated living there, so I was curious if you actually HAVE to live there.

Just ranting, I don't want advice; if I did, I'd make this in Life Issues.

Oh so you didn't want a discussion then. Okay.

Btw most of my post was about replying to your questions. You chose to ignore it. So I don't feel too sorry for the direction this went in. You chose to focus on the part that you supposedly don't want to talk about.

You did answer my questions, and I also answered your questions. I don't understand why you're getting whiny.

Yes, I did want a discussion, which is why I asked questions. You really like to argue.

[RabbityRabbu]

➠ ➠ Hopefully you'll get to move out soon, yeah...?

My mom -- I love the woman and all -- has the uncanny ability to make me sound like an utter moron. I blame it mostly on the fact that English isn't her first language but she's lived in the states for over twenty years, and learned her English in friggin' London to begin with. >:C
Somehow, she doesn't understand the concept of sarcasm either. But I digress.

She likes explaining really simple s**t to me like I've never done it before.
Like chewing a vitamin C tablet. She has gone through step-by-step directions of how to do this, starting from how to open the bottle. emotion_bigvein

[Namekuji Kimi]

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Namekuji Kimi

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Namekuji Kimi

Hitch Slap

Namekuji Kimi

She goes to college with me, and her home is incredibly abusive.

My home isn't that bad, I just made one little rant thread. I love my parents very much, I just made a discussion thread with a rant, that's all. My parents love my girlfriend like a daughter, and they're the ones who INSIST we both stay there during break.

Why do those details even matter? All I did was rant, why do you need more details?

My dad has the night off and it is "family night," so it is loud. I'm not going to run away just because I'm pissy for one night. I don't think about leaving my girlfriend whenever we get into a fight.

That sucks, sorry to hear her situation is so ugly at home.

I do not mean offense when I ask this question... but isn't a little creepy that they love her like a daughter when you're ******** her? I hear a lot of people say stuff like this and it's weird. In fact, I'm confused that I'm gonna ask my mom about it later (if she loves my BF like he's one of her sons). She'll probably be able to make sense of it.

I don't really "need" more details; I thought this was a discussion thread.

I don't know why you said you don't think about leaving your girlfriend whenever you get into a fight. Are you saying I do that to my partner or are you just making a comparison in your own life? Because I don't do that to my partner. Anyway, you just made it sound like you hated living there, so I was curious if you actually HAVE to live there.

Just ranting, I don't want advice; if I did, I'd make this in Life Issues.

Oh so you didn't want a discussion then. Okay.

Btw most of my post was about replying to your questions. You chose to ignore it. So I don't feel too sorry for the direction this went in. You chose to focus on the part that you supposedly don't want to talk about.

You did answer my questions, and I also answered your questions. I don't understand why you're getting whiny.

Yes, I did want a discussion, which is why I asked questions. You really like to argue.

Lol, I wasn't whining, but whatever. wink It's cute that you went as far as to block me. Don't worry, I won't be posting here again.

I will concede right now if you can somehow prove my last post was whining. I'm pretty sure you overreacted to nothing, hence also blocking me.

Like I said, I'm not posting again, so you can't really nail me for "harassment". smile Ciao.

Concede? What? I perceived you as getting whiny, even if I prove anything, you'll just insist that it isn't whining.

Besides, you COMPLETELY ******** embarrassed your self in that thread yesterday, your arguments were flawed and terrible, and you kept saying you'd leave and never did. You also aid you'd block me.

I'm not "intimidated," by you, it's just that after interacting with you in multiple threads, your intellectual flailing is ceasing to be entertaining, and starting to just get pathetic.

All I ever said was that I'm fine at home, just wanted to rant, and then asked from questions. I say I'm not asking for advice, and you start to whine.

Also, after your thread yesterday, I CANNOT take you seriously ever again, you're a horrible, horrible poster.

And I GUARANTEE you are going to reply to this even though you said you're "done." Or you'll PM me.

I think it is pathetic that you're so desperate to get one last word in that you have to bother me on an alt account after I make it clear I have no intention of speaking to you again.

I blocked you because I personally think you're really ignorant, and just plain annoying. I NEVER block anyone, even those I argue with all the time. The thing is, you're not even fun to rip apart, because you're too deluded to even realize your own folly.

If you're going to be stupid on the internet, you could AT LEAST be entertaining. rolleyes

Go away, please.

[I Am Very Blue]

I lol'd pretty hard. You just proved everything you denied with your paranoia.

Oh no, I just met your "guarantee". Guess what, that doesn't really hurt my self-esteem or anything. So you can predict the obvious. Big whoop. And yeah I kept replying because you kept losing your s**t and I find that hilarious.

You know I might take you a bit seriously if you weren't so deluded yourself. I might take even a TINY bit of your views into consideration if I didn't know that you have completely flipped your s**t even though you don't know anything about me. And that's what I find so hilarious. We used to get along. I joined when Gaia was young. And it's funny that you have completely twisted things over one conversation. It's just so laughable.

Just wanted to tell you that your post made me LOL (and the next one you'll make will probably make me laugh my a** off too). I know that your views of me are completely false so it's just really, really entertaining. I don't entertain you at all but you sure write long rants to me. I find that very entertaining. Although I am hardly disappointed that you are going to stop writing these lovely hate letters to me. You are not the only one.

Don't worry, I won't bring another mule even though I have many. wink I have exactly zero investment in my accounts.

[Rebel_Dynasty]

Namekuji Kimi

I'm home with my girlfriend during break, and the walls are really thin.

We're trying to watch Ink Master, and other shows as a family, but they PAUSE THE ******** SHOW EVERY TWO MINUTES, then my dad goes on a tirade about the artwork, my mom asks questions, they're so ******** loud.

It takes us two and a half hours to watch an hour long show because they pause it so much.

Also, my dad is going deaf, and he uses surround sound. I swear, I'm losing my ability to hear because of this.

And yes, I've tried telling them to be quiet, keep it down, etc. DOES NO GOOD AT ALL.

My girlfriend can't sleep in our room, EVEN with the door shut and fan on for white noise, and my parents don't give a ********. sad

I'M MAKING AN ANGRY JOURNAL RANT AND TREATING LD LIKE MY DIARY BECAUSE I AM A STUPID ******** AND YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT ANY OF THIS.

Discuss,

- Does your family annoy you? What about them bugs the hell out of you?

- Who are your LEAST favorite family members? Why?

- Is there anyone in your family you honestly and utterly hate?

- What are some of the worst, most terrible, annoying things your family has ever done? Any stories?

- Do you have any friends who have a family you find annoying? Does your significant other have annoying family members? Tell us some annoying family stories.

Rough break. sad Well, that won't be a problem when you strike out on your own (I assume you live with your parents?).

-Yes, my family does annoy me. A lot. My mom is nosey, tries to live vicariously through me, and spends way too much time feeling sorry for herself. The woman is 59, and she acts like a fifteen-year-old. ********, I'm no where near melodramatic. I hope it's not something that comes with age. My step-dad annoys me because he expects me to call my mom everyday to keep her off his back. because you know, I don't have a life of my own, a child to raise, bills to pay, and other s**t to attend to. stare

-Least favourite family members? My grandmother is definitely on that list. She's narrow-minded, born again Catholic, who frequently acts as if she rules the family. She treats me like a child, not to mention her own daughters (both of whom are far too old to be considered children, even if my mom reminds me of one at times). Other than that, certain members on my step-dad's side of the family. Luckily, I don't see them, often.

-Hate? Well, sometimes. It really depends on how miserable they've been making me. Right now, it's just dislike.

-I can't really be bothered to go into any stories. There are too many. My mom treating me like her personal ******** therapist, yet not listening to a damn word I say. This is constant.

-Of my friends, my one friend's brother. I'm friends with him, too, but due to his drinking problem, and his somewhat "holier than thou" attitude toward everyone else, it can get on my nerves at times. He rarely tries that s**t with me, fortunately.

-My fiance is adopted, but he knows his biological father. The man is irritating beyond all comprehension. He's a nice person, but needy. (Similar to my mom in that way).

My fiance's adoptive parents irritate me, too. His mom isn't the sharpest tool in the shed, she can be kind of shallow, worries about physical appearance too much, diets like it's actually going to work, and her knowledge revolves around gossip, mostly. His adoptive dad is okay, but pretty close-minded when it comes to certain things. Tehy're both kind of blunt, so every now and then, I'm involved in an uncomfortable conversation with them.

That's pretty much it.

[Track01_Rebuild]

Find yourself lucky you CAN go home and visit your family over break. crying I miss my dogs and nature.

[Rebel_Dynasty]

Namekuji and Hitchslap (in various forms): You guys are fighting, again?

I think you're both too quick to misinterpret one another. Also, bringing up the other thread in which you both participated before should probably be left alone.

What happens in one thread should not be dragged into another.

Now, I've seen you both in other threads. Both of you show a great deal of intelligence, when you're not arguing over completely insepid things.

Seriously, is civil discussion that difficult for people?