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Welcome to gaia. Whether you're attractive to somebody or not likely isn't going to be very important here. Try roving the forums and games, and certainly get the Aquarium tutorial over with so you can enjoy Booty Grab and Message in a Bottle. Head on over to tektek to get yourself acquainted with the huge selection of items in gaia, and maybe even to start a quest or two.
Just don't feed the trolls and flamers, be polite and self-aware, play loads of games, and have fun!
Feel free to add me should you have any questions or just want to chat.