nihilgrim
chainmailleman
What is respectable behavior? As we are on the subject of individuals....
What you find respectable, is not with another. Just remember what title this thread has.
It varies by society and by the individual. As I was directing my comments at you, I was going by your assumed definition of respectable behavior. You don't respect promiscuous people, yet you sleep with them and supposedly bear their children, which is where the confusion comes in. Do you find women incapable of being chaste? Don't you care about having a relationship with someone you respect?
I never said I don't respect promiscuous people. Infact I give "high fives" to all of my friends (men and women) when they walk up with a "glow".
I just don't respect women in general. A few have earned it. But the majority just don't. I don't respect any of my kid's mothers because of what they did. I did not say "I do" and promise to stay monogamous. They did. That is why I shun them the way I do. They are bad investments.
The one thing that remains constant in all of my posts on the subject is investment. I value people on how well of an investment they are. If I spend time with person A, will it benefit both of us or not?
Sluts are not a good investment. If she's willing to bang a guy within hours of meeting him, what does that say about the years of investment your about to spend into her?
Again, a person's value is based upon investment. How much they can return over a period of time.
As selfish as this sounds, it's logically sound. It's what keeps guys like me rolling along, pissing off our male peers by banging their wives whom are more than willing to throw years of investment down the toilet faster than an unwanted pregnancy on prom night for nothing but a night of passion.