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Okay I lied, I understand what rape is. But I do not understand how one could commit and act, I mean I've been drunk and horny but I have never seriously considered it.

I just couldb't; take some one's free will away from them,Icouldn;t just force my self on them. I do not understand people who can.

So let us talk about rape, and the mind set of rapists.
It's not about sex. It's about violence and power. Sex is just an extra benefit that comes with brutalizing a woman.

Speaking from a hypothetical rapist's point of view, of course. I could never enjoy sex unless my partner was also enjoying it. And as my motto goes:

It's not rape if you want it. surprised
Let me give you a bit of insight because since I have obsessers OCD I tend to run into it alot. Honestly I cant be with anyone and I would love to force myself on someone that I love to death because I'm not allowed to love anyone. Sometimes its a control thing, I love to see people scream in pain. Sometimes its a personal emotional pain, I'm tired of being forbidden to touch a living soul. Or with some they just love to wrestle people and watch them cry.
Rapists want that power, babay.
And I will admit, sometimes the thought of raping someone does get me off a little. wink So I can see why rapists rape.
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Let me give you a bit of insight because since I have obsessers OCD I tend to run into it alot. Honestly I cant be with anyone and I would love to force myself on someone that I love to death because I'm not allowed to love anyone. Sometimes its a control thing, I love to see people scream in pain. Sometimes its a personal emotional pain, I'm tired of being forbidden to touch a living soul. Or with some they just love to wrestle people and watch them cry.
If you're forbidden to be with someone, and like acting against that, why does it have to be rape? rolleyes

As for screaming in pain, I think that s**t is hot too. It's called sadism. Your partner can consent to you beating them if they like it.
There's a reason I don't consider rapists human.
People who commit rape have deep set issues relating back to an early life experience or lack of something desired usually at a young age. I actually knew a guy who committed rape and from personally knowing him he was incrediably judgemental of himself and in public would place himself on a pedestal but in private tore himself to shreds. He had lived a promiscuous lifestyle since he was in high school and talked down about all the girls he had been with. He was a womanizer beforehand but when he finally got to the point where he raped a girl he was in a huge state of depression and was taking taking a number of intoxicants. Point being that many people who get into that mindset have already been dealing with numerous issues dealing with themselves and despite that it is never justified, it usually reflects issues about their own sexuality.
usually it's not all black and white,in fact a few of those cases are perfectly understandable.
plus,it's more of an animilistic nature rather than any other one.
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Rapists? What's to understand about rapists? Just go on a mad ball-kicking spree and be done with it. neutral
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Well, most rapist are ******** ugly, or really stupid. I wouldn't enjoy being raped by a 40 year old fat bald man that smells bad.

Though I don't think I'd mind if he was some sexy man with a sexy body that you know.. doesn't have herpes or something. I'd be down for some role playing.

Most women agree, role playing rape is actually a way to spice up the sex life, especially after marriage. Some guys are completely and utterly HORRIFIED by the idea of "role playing rape."

It just comes with the territory of being dominated in a sexual manner.
I think that many rapists do not understand that what they have done is legally and morally an act of rape. Many people I have talked to do not fully understand the concept of consent. People justify things things in strange ways. They think that because a person is wearing "slutty" clothing, he or she must want sex and automatically consent. Or they think that because a person has been kissing and making out with them, he or she clearly wants sex and has already consented to doing more than just making out.

I believe that more high schools and colleges need to educate young people about the issues surrounding sex and consent so that everyone understands their rights and responsibilities.
Rape is limited understanding expressed through action.
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Me talking about how I'd love to rape someone IRL is what's going on in this thread. 3nodding
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Rapists? What's to understand about rapists? Just go on a mad ball-kicking spree and be done with it. neutral

OH the irony.
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