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Just curious what people have to say on this.

Since now days it's almost acceptable to have "casual hook-ups" with random people.
{being sarcastic here}

How long did/do you wait?
How long do you think couples should wait?
Should they even wait?

Go ahead and rant or tell stories LD.
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1: We waited 30 days. My husband even remembers the hour that is occurred. lol

2: They should wait for however long they feel comfortable. There is no special time or a significant date that makes sex any more meaningful or less than so long as both members are consenting, of legal age, and talk about these things beforehand – or at least afterward.

3: Again, it’s all up to that individual and their partner. Who are we to say?
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My friend gives guys dome on the first date and then she wonders why I call her a slut. neutral
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Eisefin

on an irrelevant side note.
I saw your sig <3
Early congrats on your baby!
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My friend gives guys dome on the first date and then she wonders why I call her a slut. neutral

That's a bit much D;
But too each their own I suppose confused
MalevoIents
tj is no butt face
My friend gives guys dome on the first date and then she wonders why I call her a slut. neutral

That's a bit much D;
But too each their own I suppose confused
She's think she's classy and has good morals too, lol.
She's VERY deep in her denial. lol
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MalevoIents
Eisefin

on an irrelevant side note.
I saw your sig <3
Early congrats on your baby!


Thanks! Little b*****d sweety is a week late already, haha.
He doesn't want to face life and all its responsibilities. lol

I did the same to my mother, so I suppose it's okay~
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A year and two months I think? I realize that's on the longer end, but I'm really glad we waited that long. He asked around the 10 month mark, but I was so blindsided by it he could tell I wasn't ready and told me it was okay xD

Sex is really important to me though, and not something I do lightly. Waiting around a year was pretty ideal for me, because it allowed me to feel like we had something that could be long term.
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How long did/do you wait?
Me and my SO became bf/gf after we did it...first day... 3nodding sweatdrop

How long do you think couples should wait?
Whatever is comfy for them really, as long as nobody is pressured.

Should they even wait?
If they want, we realized after we couldn't bear to be apart.
3-4 months after meeting each other. We weren't really in a relationship when we did it.

People should do it whenever they feel ready. I don't really care.
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Bout a month, we were both virgins as well. Had known each other for about a year by then though.
Waiting for sex depends completely on the individual and the relationship.

There's nothing wrong with being comfortable expressing your sexuality and sleeping with a lot of people? Sex is fun and forms connections, it's not some kind of perverse thing. It's funny how obsessed with sex the media is but as soon as a woman starts HAVING a lot of sex it's like, wtf are you doing YOU CANT DO THAT YOU WHORE. While I'm not the kind of person to sleep around I don't think anybody should slut shame.
Like a month, because we had no choice.
Before we were in it.

I don't date before I ********.

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