Got Leeks?

Got Leeks?

Of course	21.3%	[ 76 ]
Nope	12.6%	[ 45 ]
WTF, a leek?	17.7%	[ 63 ]
I ate them :3	16.9%	[ 60 ]
Only for 10g	31.5%	[ 112 ]
Total Votes:			[ 356 ]

[gloria_wong_91]

YEA! It's insane...I don't buy chocolates or chips when I buy groceries either. But then my boyfriend brings me some out of the blue and it really makes my day. Gosh.

Hehehe, one day...We shall discover the fourth -awesome- dimension! And hide there.

Hahahaha, I've finally finished exams! So I'm pretty much doing the opposite. The learning stops, the mindless celebrations start. Alcohol every night, dancing, baking, talking nonsense. Whee. I love life without studies. And omg, you're learning thai?! Are you going to go to Thailand?

[Mom!j!]

I may disappear from time to time, but I'm still around, I bumped into a gaia con! so I got a cool badge an stuff

[gloria_wong_91]

Wow, it's been awhile. Gaia con? I haven't seen one yet. MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR, btw! (: How're the holidays and the festivities?

[Kontona Chiro]

o.o
a while indeed! xD i dont always see when gotleeks got new posts.. *shakes fist at inefficient reportboard*

and grats momiji on being to a gaia con! :3
being in norway, there is probably no way i will ever see one... xD unless i went to america i guess.
I do however live in the capital city of norway now, so anything that comes from international sources usually come to my city. <3 it is swell to live by myself.

how are you guys? =D

[gloria_wong_91]

Hey! Doing absolutely great. I love studying in the UK (and totally agree about the living alone part). I don't mind being 6700 miles away at all. biggrin And it helps that Europe's such an interesting place to travel. Speaking of which, I'm planning to go to Norway in Dec...Is there a chance of catching the aurora borealis? ><

[Kontona Chiro]

the chance is greater if you're traveling north of norway, me myself, i never saw the stuff... xD live too far south.

where in norway will you be going? :3

great to hear you're doing well! and in the UK even XD you must have tons of fun. 8D

[gloria_wong_91]

I'm guessing it'll be really cold? Oh dear. Haha, but I'm determined to see it at least once before I leave Europe. I haven't decided yet which parts of Norway to go to! Any recommendations? biggrin

And omg, I know I shouldn't, but I've to rant so ignore the next bit!

-rant starts-My friend is driving me absolutely insane! Well, she's driving everyone insane, but I'm supposed to be her closest friend here. She's just so incredibly needy...We live in the same corridor, and she finds me in my room every day when she has nothing to do (almost always), and I've to eat dinner with her because it's kinda taken for granted and then she refuses to leave my room when I actually have loads of work to do. She is contradictory and self-righteous, thinking that her values are right simply because she studied in international schools, and then when you win her in the argument, like say about her being unhappy, she just goes 'I know it's not, I just like being unhappy all the time' which basically contradicts the fact that we're arguing to start with. And omg, it drives me crazy that she can like alot of guys at the same time and think it's ok, and HAS TO like a guy at all times albeit changing targets once a week or something because she's 'done it since she was 10', and talk about it all the time. The worst part if that they're all good friends that we hang out with every day and it gets awkward particularly 'cause she thinks it's ok to flirt if she drinks alot (which she then proceeds to do) and the next day, there is this awkwardness when we hang out 'cause he just spent the whole night avoiding her. I mean, at least steer clear of my close friends! Arg. I wouldn't live with her in the same corridor again next year, but people usually ballot together and try to stay with their friends, and she doesn't know yet how everyone does not want to live with her, so my friend and I are obliged to ballot with her. So basically, our friends are going to live above/below us but not on the same corridor because of her, and we don't want to force them to either. I feel really bad for thinking so horribly of her, but of all my attempts to try and tell her to perhaps just change a little (which I know you shouldn't ever ask someone to do), she just gives me the 'but I like being weird' response, or 'I like being unhappy' if I use being happier as a reason to change. And I don't want to tell her either that the 'many friends' she thinks she has actually reallyreally dislike her. :/ Alot.
-rant ends-

That felt muchmuch better. Sorry about that. Heh. But I'm sure if I ranted anywhere else, I'd feel bad.

[Kontona Chiro]

I have no recommendations for norway, get a travel web site and ask them. xD Norway is too dull in all senses. I think one of the hot spot for tourists is some big rock somewhere actually. xD

and that rant is fine, goodness i hope it helped to blow off that steam.
I can so see the situation, both from hers, yours and your friends. And i have absolutely no idea what on earth could solve it. XD Good lucks and be clever, i guess.

I have my own little rant to put since we're just blowing off steam here now~ Although i think my rant can be shorted down to these few words: I have fallen in love.
I remember holding people dear to me, knowing that I love people and depend on them as a given, but now I'm experiencing something completely different, it's like a crush, but it's taking my whole heart body and soul and putting it to little pieces that each beats and glows, and that slowly reorganizes themselves to match that perfect man i want to spend the rest of my life with...
I've already known this guy for over 6 years now, but by online means only. He came to norway for 3 months and left before the new year change. We already had deep and fond feelings for eachothers through the internet, knowing eachothers personality and admiring, liking and loving what we found in each others... And accepting the things we didnt quite like.
But then we meet in real life...
The strangest sensation is to see someone for the first time in your life and recognize that person instantly... Another strange sensation is to be immediately attracted to a person you newly met by already knowing his personality, and being impressed by looks... And another strange sensation that is awesome, is to discover so much more about a person you thought you knew all about...
Another very strange thing is, if you have never experienced a romantic relationship by any means before in your life, and suddenly you're being hugged by a guy who wants to express affection through it... My mother never hugged me after i could walk by myself. XD So just something like that was the strangest and most confusing moments.
On another note, he had already been in a few relationships before we started to chat, so i could gather that my experience with meeting him was greater to me than to him... Which is a little sad, I wish he could feel it as strongly as i do, but as long as i know he loves me... :3 That was th whole reason he came to norway anyways... And he is working hard to try get into an international school in norway to try stay here permanently... <3
So this is the first time this little girl fell in love in RL. xD and im betting it will be all that it takes for a happy life for me. <3
Right now he is back in the country in which he came from, and i dont hear from him as much as i'd like to, but i'm being patient. :3
might of been around 2ish months since he was here, but im still not used to not having him around... XD
My favorite activity now days is laying around, being love sick, missing him... Looking forward to each mail or chance to say hi to him...
My heart havent stopped pounding ever since he was here... But i know, even if what im feeling should pass like a crush, which i heavily don't think it is... We would still be perfect for eachothers, because of how we have always get along... :3

.... and enough girly chattery for now. I feel immensely embarrassed by myself, i used to laugh at people who shows the symptoms i do regarding love. XD


So, how was your day. xD

[gloria_wong_91]

Hahaha, I'm sure Norway has its allure. biggrin I'll go look it up.

By some miracle, she suddenly decided to stay with her friends but near us. SO YAY. I don't have to see her so often. I feel really bad but wellllll.

Awwwww, that's so sweet. I've only ever liked two people in my life, my ex-boyfriend and this guy who's actually more like a crush that I'll never ever want to date, but I can imagine what you mean. And it's awesome that you're in this lovey dovey dreamy state and that you're positive you guys would work out. Hehe, I loved that feeling. Of course after that I would start thinking about horrible things and nitpick at everything ruining the whole thing. I'm not suited for a relationship I think. Won't you get to see him again though?! It'll be so hard if you've to do this long-distance thing. Even if it did start out that way. I'm sure he feels the same way you do though with the same intensity, despite having had relationships before. Hahaha, I used to laugh at people too! Well, I still do but mostly because no one knows how I was when I was with my ex...They didn't even know we were together because they never saw us together. Hmm.

This reminds me though. How do you tell if a friend likes you? Everyone insists he does, but I hope not. He kinda does everything I say, even after saying no to his friends, and I guess he does some rather sweet stuff like walking back up with me and my friends while his friends cycle up, or coming over to my room at 2am with cake. I told him I like someone else, so I'm technically not leading him on. But my friends think I should stop messaging him so much, except I'm quite close to his clique. And he just asked me to be a college parent with him next year which I can't decide whether to accept or decline. You're probably more objective, what do you think?

Oh what the crap. I need to stop thinking about irrelevant things and focus on studying. Haha. And my day was perfect! I made tiramisu and chocolate souffle, and I'm making mac 'n' cheese tomorrow. I'm salivating thinking about it! You?

[Kontona Chiro]

Haha XD oh, and the guy im talking about; he has only had great previous relationships, which is why i feel so clueless, i haven't a clue about the whole affair. Also I'm prevented from being too intimate until after marrige by my believes. And he respects it perfectly. <3 Impresses me alot... :3 (yep, cant even kiss until he proposes. xD )
Well, if he cant make it back to norway again next year, im going to try see if i can study in his country instead, at least one year. xD norwegian high schools/colleges have quite the opportunities for such. Although from what i read... I cant get very close to him, but at least closer than half the globe, lol. :3 I would be able to see him on vacations. <3
... My heart still beats like crazy whenever i think of him... x3

Anyways!
About your situation! xD
I can't call myself completely objective, seeing how everyone has a different view of how to proceed or avoid affairs...
But it seems to be, a lot of people think that "oh dear, he has feelings for me, we must be a couple NOW." and jump into things prematurely. xD;
I believe the best relationship you can have, is one of friendship before anything else... To the point where you can be so open, that you can even speak to whomever openly about your feelings towards eachothers and still trust it doesnt change anything, which takes a lot of trust and being secure. o.o obviously this guy feels very secure about you, since he favors you to everything he does. If he has feelings for you, you shouldn't really think about it, as long as he don't push you to be anything more than you're comfortable with.
Time is usually what separates the things thats not important from what is important, so... You're in no hurry to accept or dismiss. xD very few people realize that time concept by instinct.
I wouldn't dismiss being his collage parent if i felt comfortable with him.
In worst case, you can always be the good friend that helps him find another girl. xD;

Uh, good lucks. lol. :3

I havent had proper food for daaays.. maybe weeks... pasta and rice is very cheap, and im saving up as much i can.. xD
enjoy your precious delicacies. <3 i love tiramisu and souffle... i wish i knew how to make those. x3

[gloria_wong_91]

Haha, aww that's sweet. biggrin It's probably better going in without any experience simply because there's less to expect and more to enjoy. But that being said, I'm sure he thoroughly enjoys talking to you/being with you by the very fact that he likes you despite how great his past girlfriends were. I.e. You're way awesome-r. Haha.

Haha, it's actually his college wife, and you're right. It's not a problem, not yet. As long as he doesn't do something crazy. My friends are retarded though, lol, they adore this guy and reallyreally want me to date him (my friends are guys hahahahaha) and they make stupid noises whenever I mention his name. And bother me in lectures with messages about him. Rofl. I am very clearly trying to get him a girl though (I am conspiring with his good friend to get him attached to help him win a bet that they made) although it's taking us longer than we'd hoped.

Why have you not had proper food? Haha, they're really not delicacies. Considering mac 'n' cheese is just macaroni with a hell lot of cheese. XD Incredibly unhealthy I might add. But comfort food for a horrid rainy day. Souffles are so lovely, but so time-consuming to make. :/ I sometimes wish all I had to do all day was cook, then I could spend hours preparing awesome meals for myself.

[Kontona Chiro]

Hehe, yeah we sure love the way we talk. :3

And good lucks with that guy. xD throw him in some female scout club if everything fails.

I remember back at home, sometimes when i had the house for myself, and i really could spend hours making food for myself.. <3 that. was. awesome.
now however, i live somewhere else, still problems finding work, so i save up as much i can.

mac n' cheese is a delicacy simply because its ridiculously unhealthy and mega delicious. xD

[gloria_wong_91]

Haha, or convince him to sign up for blind date. biggrin I guess I'm learning to enjoy the benefits of having someone like me now (like not having to walk everywhere alone because I'm the only person without a bike in Cambridge. >< wink

Ohh, oh dear. Sounds hard. :/ Makes me not want to leave home ever. But I'm sure you enjoy the privacy and new-found freedom too? And ohman, that's true. Too unhealthy. I tried to even things out with a salad, but at around midnight, I got hungry again and couldn't sleep. Salads are just too unsatisfying.

[Kontona Chiro]

Leaving home was worth everything...
But now i so miss the boy who stole my heart so much.. u.u
He cant make it back to norway because his country wouldnt host the language test for him, so he wants to start his career studies in his country and come back to norway for masters after 3 years.. so..
... *sips coffee* ... i'm asking if i could visit during summer vacation tho... just to meet him and his family and friends... it would depend on his parents since he lives at home... i hope it works out. u.u

[gloria_wong_91]

Haha, I'm guessing his family knows about you right? It would be awesome if you can visit during vacation! Spending some quality time together is important. My friend's girlfriend just recently came over to the UK to find him as well during vacation, and they're traveling together for 5 weeks! Am always envious of boyfriends/girlfriends who are willing to travel a great distance for their partner. :/ Don't think I will.