~Ichigo_Pie~
ok! I have a question about my pitbull <3
when we first got her (almost a year ago) we took her everywhere with us. she was by either my side or my boyfriends (more his than mine) at all times... this is bad, and we knew it, but if we put her in a bathroom so we could run to town, his mom got mad and said we were cruel to her.
She had everything she needed. food and water, toys, there was paper all over the floor incase she made a mess. We pulled every harmful thing out of her reach... basically we puppy proofed this room that at the time was plenty of room for her to run and play in.
fast forward to now.... she's over dependent. she has a fit if we even walk out of the room and close the door behind us and shes on the other side. She throws a fit if I stay in the room with her.
Eventually she stops barking, but she will lay down and huff and whine (literally whine, and huff and dramatically sigh)
I don't know what to do to break this independence.
Last August, she had to start staying outside in a pen (big big pen) during the time my boyfriend and I were at school. and it's been a thing. Everyday she goes outside during the typical 8-5 work schedule... she's STILL pulling this over-dependent stunt and tantrum throwing.
I don't know how to break her of this. It makes finding an apartment hard because we know if my boyfriend leaves for work, she will bark for at least an hour or better then whine the rest of the time.
;-; help?
Separation anxiety is a tricky habit to break, a mate of mine's boyfriend's staffy has chronic separation anxiety and no amount of training and dog psychology has made any difference! But, have hope!
To start off with, there are a few basic things you can try. Don't make a fuss of her when you leave or arrive home, act calmly, and ignore her if you have to until she calms down, making a fuss of her is telling her that all her whining and carrying on is a good thing. Another good idea is to gradually increase the time she is left at home by herself, go out for an half an hour, then an hour, etc, this lets her know that you will always come back. And finally, try giving her a yummy bone when you leave, not only will it keep her occupied for a while, but it reinforces the idea that you leaving her is a good thing. And finally, I don't know whether you're in a position to do so, but adopting another dog could also help.
Good luck!