i think everything a person does is selfish tbh
i think it's the other people's fault a person wants to kill themselves to begin with?
so in this case i believe it's the suicidal person's loved ones the ones who are being more selfish? most of the time they want to help once the person is already bad
most of the time other people disregard any issue anyone may have, specially mental illnesses
why do they start worrying once the person is suicidal if it's highly probable it's their fault to begin with???
even if that's not the case