Same here, I only have one request thus far, but if this starts to pile up it'll be really really annoying. I'd advise all players not to send requests at this time.
After countless emails and screenies back and forth - still have the problem .... except now when I click 'send gift' it does disappear, but reappears as soon as you click on Message Center again or log in again.
How hard is it to get rid of this annoying issue scream
Well I updated flash and the rogue gift request is now gone - - - BUT I now get this error when trying to revive a neighbors crop : (11,3,300,265,200 false) confused