I'm a fan of American McGee's Alice, although I've only played the second (I don't have a PC...)
Tim Burton had some great character designs, and it worked really well when it didn't make sense, but completely fell flat when they tried to give it a plot. I really hate the whole "you have to accept your destiny" crap too. I wish one of these days, a character would just say "******** the prophecy, this is MY life," like Alice was apparently not strong enough to do.
There's a made-for-TV version of Alice in Wonderland with Martin Short, Gene Wilder, and Whoopi Goldberg (I think it's on Netflix right now actually). It's my absolute favorite. It's probably one of the weirdest, but also the closest to the book :]
i got to say i love the game versions of alice in wonderland like american mcgee's alice and alice madness returns its so corrupted and twisted but so totally awesome twistedheartcat_mrgreengaia_kittenstar
I haven't seen the original, so maybe I am talking smack for no reason but...I wish someone out actually make an Alice that followed the original story. No interpretation, or added characters, or changed storyline; just a movie based on the book. The book was good enough and creepy enough and silly enough as was.