I'm a non-conformist <3
I am responsible, I think things thru, accept the consequences, sometimes naughty sometimes nice, always considerate, but never perfect.
I look/act/feel 25ish, everyone says so, but I am 34.
I still love all the same things plus new interests.
Why turn boring when you turn older? Why dress conservative? Who cares what others think?
I have a 16yr old boy and a baby boy and I'm a single mom on purpose.
Yes, my childrens' fathers are my friends (though I don't talk much to the first one, we just don't get along) and they're fathers to their boys. I just do most of the work
I hope to fall in love mutually some day with either guy or girl but I prefer girl.. I dunno.. but I'm not looking. I'm happy with my friendships, my cuddle buddies, and my close relationships. I'm polyamorous but it's about love, not sex, for me.
I work 3 days a week in nursing home. Lots of interesting stuff.
I'm pecking away at that Psych degree. I want to be an MFACC (marriage, family, adult, child counselor.)
I'm a clean freak but it's more about neatness and keeping the germs of people who offend me, out of my house. x)
My teen babysits once or twice a month so I can go out and play with my friends. I like Gaia, MMORPGs (RIP City of Heroes/Villains :< ) drawing, collaging, art, electronic music, making videos, writing short stories, going to art shows, dressing up, being fancy/oddball, and when I can afford it, travel.
I have depression and anxiety but it is manageable.
My computer/bed area is my happy little nook.
The arms of my cuddle buddies.
Cuddling my baby.
I seem hyper online.. because I'm happy here. But I have been thru a lot of painful ordeals and somehow came thru and sometimes life gets me way down..
I can be really funny and a real character
I am sensitive but not too terribly so, just the right amount.
My style is mostly Goth with a little sparkle, a little little girl, a little edge, a little softness, a little Vintage, a little this and that.
My walls reflect happiness in fantasy and escapism and those happy times I had as a kid or with my friends and my own kids.. and the sadness and dark parts that are inevitable in life.
Working with people who die has taught me to be at terms with death.
Don't mind my age. I can relate to people of all ages. My oldest friend is almost a hundred, and my youngest is my baby
I'm totally against pedos, rapists, murderers, buzz-killers, republicans that think the way they live their lives is the way ALL people should live their lives
People should be free to express and live their lives the way they want as long as it harms none.
Women should be allowed to go around topless like men do.
If women can wear either "gender's" type of clothes without much comment and it's pretty much socially acceptable, then men should have the same right.
I don't appreciate the whole pink is for girls blue is for boys.. I dress my boy in pink sometimes, nothing frilly or princessy, just a plain pink onesie or some socks, along with a blue something else, to confuse and make people think.
Colors are only colors, whether on the skin or IN the skin.
Both of my babies were born on PURPOSE.
I wanted to coparent with good guy friend, but they weren't up for being responsible so I have to be the one to do all the work but hey I'm used to it.
Vent to me
talk to me a lot
write me long letters.
I don't mind!
Love ya Sarah you're the best friend